Social Anthropology-Gender Appeal

One of my greatest hobbies is to observe people around me, unconsciously and consciously. That’s why most of the time I won’t feel lonely but happy instead while walking alone in the city or crowded area. I love to be surrounded by people while thinking and doing stuff on my own.

Last Fri. in the office came a pretty girl for an interview. Sweet, bright eyes, a small mouth with a great smile. Mmmm….a typical type who would turn men on. I looked around this all-men environment and predicted that apparently something would happen, let’s wait and see…

She sat down waiting for her name called.

Mr. X came out of the toilet. He kept on walking with his normal stride, suddenly stopped for 1 second while seeing her. He started walking towards his desk but slower and turned his head backwards. At the same time he held up his Walkie-talkie to the mouth, but nothing spoken.

Bingo No. 1.
Mr. Y came out of the changing room. He passed her when she was called into the interview room. His mouth slightly opened, stopped and starred at her for 1 second and swiftly kept on walking. He stopped again in front of my desk and watched her back for around 5 second. His face changed. It was so hilarious to see his funny expression that I couldn’t help LOL all of a sudden burying my face in my notebook.

Bingo No.2.

Well, well, well. It is known to all the Gender Appeal exists since the first ape evolutes into the first human on the earth (or rather the Adam & Eve or similar stories if you have religion belief), but have you ever observed the gender appeal around you? During my observations for some time in different subjects and today’s little issue turn my interest on, let me give you some hints about:

How to discover someone is interested in you, sometimes even before himself/herself noticed? But it is only my own observation without any theory support, so believe it or not.

If you found that…

He/She secretly stares you longer than 2 seconds, sometimes looking away or pretending doing something else or giving you a smile (a very confident person) while you look back;
He/She posts a more open gesture while sitting or standing next to you, e.g., he/she sits with his hand put on the back of your chair, he/she talks with a lot of gestures with his/her arms open to you; or others…just think;
He/She unconsciously imitate your gesture, your words, your expression, etc.
He/She from time to time feels like having body contacts, e.g., touching your head, hair, nose, face, arm as while joking or talking, and obviously hand.

Male, while getting drunk or in a dark or crowded area like bar or club, he gets close to you and talk near your ear, which is believed to be the most sensitive part of a woman’s body; (well, although I never think so, I have another part and guess I might not a normal female and it doesn’t work for me, LOL)
He/She pays great attention to his/her own look, e.g., always tidy up his/her clothes, look at the mirror, re-make up, tidy his/her hair, etc.

Then congratulations, you have your gender appeal to him/her. If you also feel something on that one, good luck, baby! If you don’t, well, be polite, maybe you can become good friends later if you don’t wanna burst the bubble.

Then how to show your interest back, ladies? Well, I am intended to teach you here since I am not a guru on this side and I didn’t officially try. But if you would like to know, private…

Actually a lot of Social Anthropology Theories are very obvious if you keep an eye on it. But most people are head over heel while meeting someone he/she really likes and it screws everything including your ability to judge. Keep a clear head and mind for a long term relationship.

Mmm, I should work on another subject on Social Anthropology very soon…