Beauty and Appreciation

If someone told you that appearance is not important at all, you gonna find some one who will only appreciate your internal beauty, well, believe me and forgive me, it is totally bullshit, I have to say.


Only these kinds of ppl will tell you this:

1. Those who are big big liars with mean purpose to trap you in some way or they are telling a white lie;

2. Those who don't have external beauty trying to collect their broken pieces of confidence, and most of them hv been hurt before by the so-called appearance;

3. Those who hv so outstanding external beauty that they neglect the previlede they have;

4. Those who watch too many episodes of Ugly Betty and live in the dreams.


In this superficial world, ppl believe the first sight they see. The forever truth is, ppl appreciate your external beauty first, and the fixed impression is under the coat of external beauty you usually hv a superficial and stupid mind. If it turns out to be NOT, then ppl really appreciate your internal beauty.


In the western world there's a very vivid word: Soul Mate, like the quotes in Sex and the City, “two words, a great meaning." It is, and life is so beautiful that someday you come across your soul mate. But nobody will like the soul alone. The soul needs to be bodied in a body, and ideally, a beautiful one.


The real world is cruel. It is like losing weight. You cannot dress your favorite clothes 'cause you are fat. Well, you cannot just hide in your quit and turn on the air-conditioner pretending summer is still decades away, gal, it is June and you need to face the truth. You are seeking for all the fake but good reasons to make yourself blind but still being seen by others, why not get out of your bed, turn off your air-conditioner and sweat a little bit? It helps to lose weight. Sometimes we just need a little push and the courage to face yourself.


If for a long time you are not appreciated by your appearance, you have nothing to blame your parents or genes. All you hv to blame is yourself. Another truth is, "There are not ugly women, but only lazy ones.”


Well then, try to be smart towards ppl around you, and yourself. Life is short and youth is shorter, only wisdom under the cover of beauty is immortal.